Which blessing
from God are you most thankful for?
“Alysha, my dear, do you know what the great learned Sage Adi Shankar Acharya said when he was asked this question by his disciples? Without hesitation, the Archarya answered: ‘What I consider to be the greatest blessing and boon from God Almighty is that He has finally allowed my soul to come into this world in human form. The human form is very precious, for which we must submit gratitude to God each day without fail.’
His disciples then requested
him to explain further.
‘It is only through the
human form that our soul can find its way to its ultimate (final) destination –
the state of Union with Him. But alas, most of us waste this great opportunity:
Think of a
performer at the circus. After years and years of determined efforts and
practice since childhood, he is finally ready to walk the tight rope without
any kind of a safety net underneath – the ultimate culmination of his lifelong
ambition. The rope is stretched tight high above the ground and the performer starts...his mind clear, his focus
stable, with nerves of steel and unwavering discipline, he walks the rope one
step at a time. The crowd is hushed, watching his every move raptly, painfully
aware that one misstep will lead to certain death but the performer progresses
forward. Alas! When he is just one step away from reaching the end of the rope
and achieving his goals, his mind wavers; he becomes distracted, loses his
concentration and misjudges the last step..........
That, my disciples,
perfectly describes the condition most of us are in today. We do not appreciate
the enormous blessing that has been bestowed upon us – we are God’s highest
creation, we are Human Beings! – and we tend to waste this golden opportunity
behind meaningless pursuits and desires of money, power, fame,
self-glorification etc. Perhaps this is so because we are unable to remember
how long it has taken our souls to reach human form. The journey of the soul is
aptly represented by each step taken by the performer on the tight rope. Step
by step, our souls have progressed forward until this, the final step, the
human form.’– ”
I
interjected my grandmother, “Oh, is that what our Pirs mean by ‘lakh choraasi
fera’? Also, the words of Imam Sultan Mohamed Shah [His Highness Aga Khan III] come to mind.
“Indeed. Amongst most Hindu
scholars, it is believed that the soul takes on 8,400,000 different forms
before being granted human form. Our Holy Pirs have mentioned this several
times with the words you have quoted. So, I believe that what these scholars
say is true. And the farmans of Imam Sultan Mohamed Shah [His Highness Aga Khan III] are also very clear about the exalted nature
of the human form and about how regretful it is that we are just taking this
unique opportunity for granted. I am sure you have heard this over and over
again from Alwaezes and lecturers, so my perspective will centre around our
Hazar Imam [His Highness Aga Khan IV] who has said clearly in one of His
speeches – ‘The beautiful thing about human beings, what differentiates them
from animals, is that they can change.’
This is indeed a cheerful
thought and these words have become a mantra for me and I try always to
remember them. We as human beings can change,
that is something animals cannot do. And, my dear, we have to change. By change I mean: regain our focus and remember why we have been born
and what is the main purpose of our lives.
There lived a
rich merchant in Mississippi, a landowner, with huge cotton farms. He had lots
and lots of slaves whom he acquired during his frequent journeys to Africa at
very favourable prices. He was a tough taskmaster and made each and every slave
work from dawn to dusk in his farms. He took pleasure in the fact that these
human beings belonged to him. They were his possessions, to treat as he wished,
and he treated them very badly, dolling out to them meagre meals and one loin
cloth (even in the freezing winters) and making them live in appalling
quarters. Even his many horses were better looked after than his slaves. A real
tyrant! He became so used to seeing expressions of hatred and contempt on their
faces – that pleased him a lot – that he immediately noticed a new slave whom
he had just acquired. This particular slave went about his punishing routine
with a smile on his face and this did not sit well with the merchant at all. He
made his tasks tougher day by day and halved all his meals. But the man
smilingly continued and cheerfully greeted his master whenever he passed by.
The merchant was aghast. Why does this man not hate me like all the others do?
Why is he so cheerful? He decided to pay a visit to the slave’s tiny room one
evening. The slave was kneeling down on the floor, his hands held high and he
was thanking God Almighty for His mercies and His bounties. The merchant went
weak at his knees and had to lean against the wall for support. This is a
slave. He has no possessions. He works from dawn to dusk like a donkey and of
late, I have made his tasks even more unbearable. He hardly gets any food to
eat, has only one loin cloth to his name and lives in a hovel, worse than a
pigsty, and yet he is bowing down before God and thanking Him! And look at me!
Tears flowed
down his eyes and he went back to his mansion, his head bowed and his heart
enlightened. That moment was a moment of awakening for him. The next day, he
called all his slaves and informed them that they were no longer enslaved but
would henceforth be his partners. Those who wished to stay would be paid for
their work and would get proper housing, meals and clothes henceforth. Those
who wished to leave were free to do so and would be provided with means to go
wherever they wished. The slave he saw the previous evening was the first to
react. He rushed forward and embraced the merchant and all others followed
suit. This was a radical move for those days and times and many other
landowners and merchants were inspired to do the same with their slave labour.
This initiated the emancipation and eventual abolishment of slavery in southern
USA.
The main point of my story
is that the merchant changed
and became a better person and thus progressed forward towards his true
purpose. As I have said, we all have to change
and there will come a time when we will all face a moment of awakening. History
is full of examples of people who changed:
·
Valmiki changed from a thug, robber and murderer to one of the greatest and
most learned sages. He was given the honour of writing the great epic,
Ramayana.
·
Angulimala Daku used to kill people and cut off their fingers
to make a necklace to wear around his neck. One meeting with Gautam Buddha changed him into a devoted and learned
sufi.
·
Farid-ud-din Attar changed from a chemist, apothecarist and
successful businessman to a renowned Sufi Darwesh who has authored the famous
Conference of the Birds.
·
Varas Ismail Gangji heard
one verse of ginan in jamatkhana and that was his moment of awakening. His
whole life changed and he became a
devoted leader of the Ismaili community, very near and dear to the Imam. I am
sure his story is very well known.
Similarly, we too must change but we are very stubborn. No, I
should not say that. It is not that we do not want to fulfil the purpose of our
lives and reach that blessed point, but we tend to forget easily or get
distracted, via our minds and egos, in the temporal enjoyments of this world
and thus keep postponing or procrastinating our intentions to change. But time ticks on and on and
on...”
“Sant Kabir
visited Banaras often. On one visit, he met Manav and offered to guide him
spiritually. ‘Please give me some time, I need to get my children educated
properly first then I will surely become your disciple. I really want to.’
Fifteen years later, Sant Kabir met Manav again in Banaras and made the same offer.
‘I am not ready yet, let me get my children married and settled down and then I will surely become your disciple. I really, really want to.’
Fifteen years later, Sant Kabir met Manav again in Banaras and made the same offer.
‘I am not ready yet, let me get my children married and settled down and then I will surely become your disciple. I really, really want to.’
Five years
later, Sant Kabir ran into Manav again and asked him to come and learn from
him.
‘Please forgive me, I am anxious to see the face of my first grandchild and to have him or her on my lap. Once I do that, I promise to sit down and learn from you. Nothing will make me happier.’
‘Please forgive me, I am anxious to see the face of my first grandchild and to have him or her on my lap. Once I do that, I promise to sit down and learn from you. Nothing will make me happier.’
Another five
years later, Sant Kabir could not find Manav anywhere in Banaras. Eventually, a
well wisher led him to Manav’s house where he saw a huge portrait of Manav with
a garland of flowers hanging over it...”
“Darwesh Ibrahim’s six
statutes are an extremely useful way of not forgetting and avoiding
postponement and procrastination.
Statute 1: if you do not wish to change then you have no right to take anything
free of charge from the Lord. You are not allowed to breathe in the free air,
you cannot use the bounties of water and food which the Lord provides. No
giveth, no taketh.
So if you decide not to
change today then don’t breathe, drink or eat.”
I
couldn’t help but smile when I heard this powerful pronouncement. How can one
live without breathing, eating or drinking for even a moment? Surely, this was
a clever way the Darwesh used to ensure his disciples would not forget what was
expected of them.
“Statute 2:
you have no right to behave
as you like and commit sins on earth or on any other part of God’s creation. So
if you wish to do as you like and behave improperly and create impurity then
find a place (to do so) which has not been created by God or which is not part
of God’s creation.
Statute 3: if you wish to act in any manner that you like and indulge in wrong
doing and sinful behaviour then you must find a place to do so where you are
hidden from the eyes of God. You cannot behave badly in the presence of God and
so, be bad only if you are sure God is not watching you.”
I
could not help but admire the ingenuity of the Darwesh and also the truth of
his words. Regular reminders of these three statutes would definitely inspire
one to change.
“Statute 4:
When the Angel of Death
comes for your soul, order him to wait. Tell him you are not ready, you haven’t
repented for your sins and done all the good deeds that you have wanted but
have kept on postponing. Command him to come back at a more convenient time
when you have finished all this.”
Oh
my God. As if the Angel of Death can be halted. This obviously means that since
we do not know at which moment the Angel of Death will appear to pronounce the
end of our time on this earth then we can’t afford not to change immediately.
“Statute 5: if you are unsuccessful in convincing the Angel of Death to wait and
you are presented before the Lord for judgement, tell Him that you do not want
to be judged. You have not had time to ‘balance your accounts’ and therefore
cannot participate in the exercise of judgement. Command Him to close up His
books immediately.”
As
if! Every thought that occurs in our minds, every word that escapes our mouths,
each and every action of ours is noted down and will be examined at the time of
judgement. We may not even remember what we did or thought or said five minutes
ago but the Lord makes note of everything, right from our first breath to our
last. Will He listen to us and close up His books? I don’t think so!!!
“Statute 6:
if the judgement is not in
your favour and God commands that you be taken to hell then just put your foot
down and tell Him that you won’t go. You’re not going to any such place. Just
refuse.”
I
almost laughed out loud. Ibrahim Darwesh surely had a good sense of humour.
This would just be like a convict refusing to be imprisoned upon sentencing.
Truly an excellent way of remembering that we cannot afford a single minute
more of postponement of change.
NO
TIME LIKE NOW.
